Pending Write-up: Bereavement Period (Track 4)
Bereavement: Grief is a multi-faceted response to loss, particularly to the loss of someone or something to which a bond was formed.
This intro sets the stage for the fore coming tracks. This section contains my inner most thoughts about relationships, that are no longer the same or have ended.
Joe Budden in his track “Dear Diary” is quoted as
“See relationships are never a threat/Cause I’ll erase the history and act like we never met”.
The majority of my relationships fall under Joe’s sentiments. I can honestly say only a few relationships caused me pain. Not because I didn’t have a lot of them, but I was very careful with how much of myself I invested into them.
Think of your life as a building with revolving doors….people leave and enter all the time. We have little control on keeping people in or out of the building. All we can do is be ourself. Think about it, a building for the most part is a complete structure and unless you plan on doing renovations there really is no way to change it. And even if you decide to change, if it’s not fast enough people may still leave while your in the middle of renovations.
There are only a few people that left my building that actually caused me pain. These relationships are touched in this section of “Pending”.